To The Spesh Moms: I See You
- Charley Jo Vaughn
- May 10
- 2 min read

To the spesh moms--
I'm not a spesh mom, so I don't know exactly what it feels like to walk in your shoes every single day. But I have spent my whole life closely connected to spesh moms, and I want you to know this:
I see you.
I notice how tired you are.
I recognize the grief that can come with letting go of the life you once imagined for your child.
I feel the hurt that comes when people don't understand, include, or make space for your child the way they should.
But I also see the pride on your face when your child accomplishes something others may call "small," even though you know it took mountains to get there.
I see the appointments, the advocacy, the paperwork, the late nights, the constant worry, and the unconditional love that never stops showing up.
And I hope you know how important you are.
Your love matters.
Your care matters.
The way you fight for your child matters.
I hope you have people around you who step in and give you a moment to breathe--a village that reminds you that you don't have to carry everything alone. I know that village can sometimes be hard to find when you're parenting a child with a disability.
But please know this:
What you are doing is extraordinary.
Happy Mother's Day to the moms who love fiercely, advocate endlessly, and celebrate every single win along the way.
You are very spesh.
If you are a Spesh mom reading this today, I hope you know that your work matters--even on the days when no one claps for it. The small wins are not small. The advocacy is exhausting. The love you pour into your child changes their world every single day.
Spesh celebrates inclusion, support, and the people who show up again and again for children who deserve to be fully seen and fully valued.
Today, we celebrate you.
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